Indian parents are typically Indian. They force you to believe that generation gap still exist. But I can assure that by using few tricks you can deal with them easily.
1. Never hurt there ego : If your parent asks you to do something or tell you to act in particular way never say NO directly. Just say Yes i will try but I don't wanna do it because
"say whatever you want in explanatory form with points" .
Note: If they are with there friends or relatives never argue with them and do not apply above method. Whether you'll follow there instruction or not simply say YES, of-course.
Wait for the time when they would be alone and then talk to them about that issue.
Situation 1: They are not allowing you for night out with friends.
First of all select a parent who is easier to tackle and cool minded. ( Most probably your Mom)
Tell her what people do in night out? how much they benefit from it socially? How intelligent your friends are( they aren't !) but say it
You don't need to tell her that you wanna go out , she figures it out herself. Then ask her "Mom please help me to take permission from DAD for night out.
If Mom says she can't . Make her believe that she can and in that process if she tells that she can't give you permission because "xyz" . Counter attack these points one by one from x to z.
Somehow (most probably) she gets ready. Let her get permission for you , if she gets then done if she can't then you still have a chance to convince your father with some promises such that I will study hard, I will never do things you don't like. I will come early in the morning things like that.
2.Share few minutes with them daily : Make a habit to talk to them daily. If you stay away from home then call them whenever possible. Tell them about your day , what happen in office or in school. What's happening around you. This will help them to understand you better and will let them know how you and your generation think.
3.Parents are not enemy : They are not your enemy. Always remember whenever you get into trouble they will help you more in comparison to anyone else. If they don't like something about you or they don't like your friend , then think about this impartially. Find out reason's why don't? If you figure out that they are wrong then present yourself with your point of view and reason.
I hope it helps
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How to Improve communication skills?
Communication skill becomes very vital in hot, flat and crowded world. Success is relative to our communication.
In this article I will give few easy and effective tips to improve that:
1. Think more speak less : Before speaking anything make sure that you have clear idea.
For ex : Imagine a situation where you are thirsty and you want water at all cost. Can't you communicate it to other person effectively without knowing his language. I know you can because in this case your absolutely clear what you want.
2. Believe in yourself : Try to speak truth or keep silent.
If you know, what you are communicating is correct and genuine than don't hesitate to speak it. Sometime we hesitate because we think, what would happen if I am wrong? Don't think just say what you want.
3. Keep yourself neat and tidy : Wear neat and clean clothes and always try to look decent.
If your at some business meeting or in party.Dress properly, but don't think much about your looking .Repeat this line again and again in your mind that " I am looking good and everyone present here is very impressed with me". Keep repeating it until you starts to believe that you are actually looking good. It will enhance your confidence which ultimately help in your communication.
4. You should have good command on language you speak : To speak effectively we should have good command on language. If you facing difficulty to speak some particular language , what are you waiting for? Start speaking that language. We all have one common problem that we usually not like to face problems from front , If you also have this problem than I request you to not run from the problem but try to solve it.
Common ex. Maths. Students runs away from it , and make it more difficult then it actually has. Same applied to language. If we start speaking in language we are facing difficulty, we can improve it easily.
Easy methods to learn any language :
5.To communicate effectively, your General knowledge should be good. Read newspaper daily and discuss about news and events with your friends and family members. Read more and more books. Cramp jokes and quotations if you can. This will make your communication effective.
I hope above tips will help,
Cheers
In this article I will give few easy and effective tips to improve that:
1. Think more speak less : Before speaking anything make sure that you have clear idea.
For ex : Imagine a situation where you are thirsty and you want water at all cost. Can't you communicate it to other person effectively without knowing his language. I know you can because in this case your absolutely clear what you want.
2. Believe in yourself : Try to speak truth or keep silent.
If you know, what you are communicating is correct and genuine than don't hesitate to speak it. Sometime we hesitate because we think, what would happen if I am wrong? Don't think just say what you want.
3. Keep yourself neat and tidy : Wear neat and clean clothes and always try to look decent.
If your at some business meeting or in party.Dress properly, but don't think much about your looking .Repeat this line again and again in your mind that " I am looking good and everyone present here is very impressed with me". Keep repeating it until you starts to believe that you are actually looking good. It will enhance your confidence which ultimately help in your communication.
4. You should have good command on language you speak : To speak effectively we should have good command on language. If you facing difficulty to speak some particular language , what are you waiting for? Start speaking that language. We all have one common problem that we usually not like to face problems from front , If you also have this problem than I request you to not run from the problem but try to solve it.
Common ex. Maths. Students runs away from it , and make it more difficult then it actually has. Same applied to language. If we start speaking in language we are facing difficulty, we can improve it easily.
Easy methods to learn any language :
- Try to read newspaper in that language.
- Watch television channels related to that language. For eg if your facing difficulty in english start watching english channels.
- Stand in front of mirror and talk to yourself in that very language.
5.To communicate effectively, your General knowledge should be good. Read newspaper daily and discuss about news and events with your friends and family members. Read more and more books. Cramp jokes and quotations if you can. This will make your communication effective.
I hope above tips will help,
Cheers
How to develop Social Skills?
SOCIAL SKILLS
Hi folks!
It is our social skills that help us to work with others, initiate and sustain personal relationships, function effectively as members of a team/group and lead other people. Social skills are important in all aspects of our lives in the community and at work. If you are of the opinion that only professionals in the hospitality business or in media industry require social skills, think again. You may be a senior scientist, a business man, a social workers or a mathematician, but you cannot ignore social skills. Employers are increasingly looking for people who not only possess the technical/professional competence needed to perform well but also those who possess ‘people’ skills or ‘soft’ skills.
Social skills include the ability to communicate and to work harmoniously with others. This is nothing new because we have all been learning how to deal with others and co-exist from the time we were born, through school and college and into the workplace. Social skills may appear to come easily to some people, but that does not reveal the amount of time, effort and attention to detail they would have put into building and maintaining their relationships.
If your social skills are not as up to mark, there is nothing to stop you form learning. Start by the simple measure of making good eye contact, smiling and positive body language. Sometimes, lack of social skills stems from having too little interaction with others. You can resolve that by making an effort to join a club or meeting up with your interpersonal contemporaries/friends and associates every few weeks to catch up and establish ease in your interpersonal communication.
Communication is about expressing and exchanging ideas and feelings with one another. Some people are inhibited because they feel that it is not necessary to share opinions, feelings, news or knowledge. Unwillingness to initiate communication also shows a lack of empathy. You are unwilling to imagine or overlooking reasons why others should be interested in your feeling and knowledge.
Effective communication is always a two way process. When you are ready to share information, thoughts, feeling etc, it also means that you are willing to listen and receive feedback. Listening well is crucial to competence in communication and enhancement of social skills. When there is a dialogue, it can help to erase mind blocks and avoid misunderstanding.
Building rapport is central to developing strong, meaningful relationships. Rapport hinges on empathy, which emerges out of casual conversations about family, sports, children and everyday life. Being able to detect and have insights about other people’s feelings, motives and concerns can lead to a sense of rapport. To sustain a collaborative work environment, it is also important for the group to have fun together. Groups that being in each other’s company, joking and sharing good times amass emotional capital which helps them to excel in good times and also to get through the bad times. Social skills help to get through bad times.
Social skills help to initiate and establish networks and relationships, but maintaining them demands both skills and commitment.
Related Video :
Related PDF
Developing Social Skills
Small Lessons big difference
Other Related links :-
To improve confidence.
To improve concentration.
To become happy
To find time for everything
Hi folks!
It is our social skills that help us to work with others, initiate and sustain personal relationships, function effectively as members of a team/group and lead other people. Social skills are important in all aspects of our lives in the community and at work. If you are of the opinion that only professionals in the hospitality business or in media industry require social skills, think again. You may be a senior scientist, a business man, a social workers or a mathematician, but you cannot ignore social skills. Employers are increasingly looking for people who not only possess the technical/professional competence needed to perform well but also those who possess ‘people’ skills or ‘soft’ skills.
Social skills include the ability to communicate and to work harmoniously with others. This is nothing new because we have all been learning how to deal with others and co-exist from the time we were born, through school and college and into the workplace. Social skills may appear to come easily to some people, but that does not reveal the amount of time, effort and attention to detail they would have put into building and maintaining their relationships.
If your social skills are not as up to mark, there is nothing to stop you form learning. Start by the simple measure of making good eye contact, smiling and positive body language. Sometimes, lack of social skills stems from having too little interaction with others. You can resolve that by making an effort to join a club or meeting up with your interpersonal contemporaries/friends and associates every few weeks to catch up and establish ease in your interpersonal communication.
Communication is about expressing and exchanging ideas and feelings with one another. Some people are inhibited because they feel that it is not necessary to share opinions, feelings, news or knowledge. Unwillingness to initiate communication also shows a lack of empathy. You are unwilling to imagine or overlooking reasons why others should be interested in your feeling and knowledge.
Effective communication is always a two way process. When you are ready to share information, thoughts, feeling etc, it also means that you are willing to listen and receive feedback. Listening well is crucial to competence in communication and enhancement of social skills. When there is a dialogue, it can help to erase mind blocks and avoid misunderstanding.
Building rapport is central to developing strong, meaningful relationships. Rapport hinges on empathy, which emerges out of casual conversations about family, sports, children and everyday life. Being able to detect and have insights about other people’s feelings, motives and concerns can lead to a sense of rapport. To sustain a collaborative work environment, it is also important for the group to have fun together. Groups that being in each other’s company, joking and sharing good times amass emotional capital which helps them to excel in good times and also to get through the bad times. Social skills help to get through bad times.
Social skills help to initiate and establish networks and relationships, but maintaining them demands both skills and commitment.
Related Video :
Related PDF
Developing Social Skills
Small Lessons big difference
Other Related links :-
To improve confidence.
To improve concentration.
To become happy
To find time for everything
How to improve confidence?
Knowing yourself is the foundation of self-esteem, self confidence and personal development.
Man has been seeking himself since the days of the Oracle of Delphi. "Know yourself" said the Oracle, but she spoke in riddles and the men who had come a long way to get a simple answer from her wise lips went away even more confused.
Yes, it isn't easy to really understand a human being. And, to understand others, we need first of all to understand ourselves and to gain self-esteem and confidence.
How can we do this?
There are ways to work on this and we can do it in the comfort of our home if we don't want to attend evening courses in self confidence and self-esteem and meet others in similar situations.
Some tips:
* Write down your positive achievements, all that you can remember; educations, jobs, loves and relationships (even if they ended, you still achieved them), friendships, children, driving licence... Look at what you already have and realize you have done rather well.
* Write down good things that others have said about you. Read through old documents from former employers or teachers that state all your strong sides. Maybe you forgot you had them?
* Make plans. Ask yourself what can be done. What can you change to make things better? Write down precise goals and write a step-by-step plan on how you intend to achieve your goals.
*Decision. Make a decision that tomorrow you will start dealing with the first step of your plan.
When you read what you have written you will realize that you have grown and developed over the years. That also means that you can grow and develop further.
Lifestyle Plans
About The Author
Ingela Berger started her own Internet business Lifestyle Plans in 2003 out of a desire to inspire and encourage others to make reality of their dreams of a personal, healthy and fulfilling lifestyle. Ingela has studied theatre directing, acting, history of art, history of ideas, health communication and leadership psychology. After some years working with art exhibitions and the theatre she went back to college and is now a health and lifestyle consultant.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Ingela_Berger
Related links on this site :-
How to crack IIT JEE
Improve Your concentration
Improve Your Memory
Quotations about Confidence
Free Books Online ( Ncert Books Available)
Main page
Man has been seeking himself since the days of the Oracle of Delphi. "Know yourself" said the Oracle, but she spoke in riddles and the men who had come a long way to get a simple answer from her wise lips went away even more confused.
Yes, it isn't easy to really understand a human being. And, to understand others, we need first of all to understand ourselves and to gain self-esteem and confidence.
How can we do this?
There are ways to work on this and we can do it in the comfort of our home if we don't want to attend evening courses in self confidence and self-esteem and meet others in similar situations.
Some tips:
* Write down your positive achievements, all that you can remember; educations, jobs, loves and relationships (even if they ended, you still achieved them), friendships, children, driving licence... Look at what you already have and realize you have done rather well.
* Write down good things that others have said about you. Read through old documents from former employers or teachers that state all your strong sides. Maybe you forgot you had them?
* Make plans. Ask yourself what can be done. What can you change to make things better? Write down precise goals and write a step-by-step plan on how you intend to achieve your goals.
*Decision. Make a decision that tomorrow you will start dealing with the first step of your plan.
When you read what you have written you will realize that you have grown and developed over the years. That also means that you can grow and develop further.
Lifestyle Plans
About The Author
Ingela Berger started her own Internet business Lifestyle Plans in 2003 out of a desire to inspire and encourage others to make reality of their dreams of a personal, healthy and fulfilling lifestyle. Ingela has studied theatre directing, acting, history of art, history of ideas, health communication and leadership psychology. After some years working with art exhibitions and the theatre she went back to college and is now a health and lifestyle consultant.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Ingela_Berger
Related links on this site :-
How to crack IIT JEE
Improve Your concentration
Improve Your Memory
Quotations about Confidence
Free Books Online ( Ncert Books Available)
Main page
How to improve Concentration ?
Concentration comes out of a combination of confidence and hunger said by Arnold Palmer Us golfer (1929 - )
Seven Techniques to improve our concentration are :-
1. Do each and every thing more attentively, for eg when you will
drive a, car just drive a car.
2. Try to do each and every thing perfectly.Yes , try to reduce errors
as much as possible.
3. Decide that you will never use eraser while writing, you will
always write correct words at first chance.
4. Improve your reading skill.Try to read as fast as possible, As much
as you reduce time as much brain concentrates more.
5. Try to analyze things more deeply. Yes we never see things deeply ,
we do not even notice our surroundings , if I ask you that which was
the last time when you saw moon? Don't you remember? It shows your
analyzing power.
6. Try to memorize things which are happening around you. Decide that
you have to remember each and every thing happening with you.
7.Whenever you feel that your concentration is disturbing start
counting in reverse order from 10 to 1.
I bet, if you use these techniques correctly your concentration will
improve in remarkable way. And one good news for you, I am opening my
comments section of this blog for anonymous users too. Now you can
post your comments without having account in google.
Hope you like this article bye and take care.
If you wanna read more on concentration clickhere (Remember to open it in new window)
More to read:-
How to Develop Better Concentration While studying(pdf)
Concentration Test Paper(pdf)
Related links on this site :-
How to crack IIT JEE
Improve Your confidence
Improve Your Memory
Main page
Seven Techniques to improve our concentration are :-
1. Do each and every thing more attentively, for eg when you will
drive a, car just drive a car.
2. Try to do each and every thing perfectly.Yes , try to reduce errors
as much as possible.
3. Decide that you will never use eraser while writing, you will
always write correct words at first chance.
4. Improve your reading skill.Try to read as fast as possible, As much
as you reduce time as much brain concentrates more.
5. Try to analyze things more deeply. Yes we never see things deeply ,
we do not even notice our surroundings , if I ask you that which was
the last time when you saw moon? Don't you remember? It shows your
analyzing power.
6. Try to memorize things which are happening around you. Decide that
you have to remember each and every thing happening with you.
7.Whenever you feel that your concentration is disturbing start
counting in reverse order from 10 to 1.
I bet, if you use these techniques correctly your concentration will
improve in remarkable way. And one good news for you, I am opening my
comments section of this blog for anonymous users too. Now you can
post your comments without having account in google.
Hope you like this article bye and take care.
If you wanna read more on concentration clickhere (Remember to open it in new window)
More to read:-
How to Develop Better Concentration While studying(pdf)
Concentration Test Paper(pdf)
Related links on this site :-
How to crack IIT JEE
Improve Your confidence
Improve Your Memory
Main page
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